5. “That guy is so hot”

It’s totally normal to notice attractive people. But saying it out loud, especially to your partner, is rarely helpful. It can make him feel insecure or like he’s in competition. Even if he brushes it off, those comments can stick in his head. If roles were reversed, you probably wouldn’t love hearing him say the same. Compliments are great when directed at your partner, not random strangers. Focus on what you find attractive in him instead. That builds confidence and keeps the connection strong. Relationship advice for women often includes this reminder: you don’t have to say everything you think.