6. “I earn more than you”
This one depends a lot on how and when you say it. If your partner is already feeling down, maybe after not getting a raise or losing a job opportunity, telling him “I earn more than you” can feel like pouring salt in the wound. It doesn’t just come across as a fact, it can sound like judgment or even a power move. In those moments, it’s best to support rather than compare. However, if you’re sitting down together to plan your finances or at a loan appointment, this statement might come up naturally. That doesn’t mean it’s aggressive, but it can still sting. It’s all about delivery and timing.
Even neutral statements can bruise someone’s pride if they’re already feeling low. A good piece of relationship advice for women is to be mindful of tone and setting when talking about money. Success should feel like a team win, not a competition.
