14. “Whatever”
Though it may seem like a harmless, dismissive word, “whatever” can undermine a serious conversation. When you say it in the middle of an argument, it can make your partner feel like they’re not being heard. Rather than solving a problem, it often causes the issue to fester. Even if you’re frustrated, it’s better to express that in a way that doesn’t close the conversation down. In lighter moments, “whatever” might pass without much consequence, but when emotions are high, it’s a conversation killer. When dealing with conflict, try to engage with your partner’s feelings instead of brushing them off. Showing that you’re invested in resolving the issue together helps build a deeper connection.
