13. “You’re lucky I’m with you”
This phrase can feel like a power play in a relationship, even if it’s said jokingly. When you say, “You’re lucky I’m with you,” it can come across as condescending, like you’re doing your partner a favor. It’s important to remember that relationships should be based on mutual respect and care, not on making someone feel like they owe you. Even if you’re frustrated, saying something like this can make your partner feel smaller or less valued. Everyone wants to feel appreciated, not as if they are “lucky” to have their partner. A better way to approach tough situations is to talk about why you’re together and why you both chose this relationship. This shows that you’re in it together, not because of obligation or power, but because you want to be.
