Immigrants often face mixed perceptions worldwide. While some regions exhibit hostility, others embrace them wholeheartedly, recognizing their indomitable spirit. This resilience can be particularly remarkable when everything goes awry and most would surrender. For refugee Dyan, giving up wasn’t an option; his perseverance eventually rewrote his destiny.
From Tragedy to Elation
A moving YouTube video capturing refugee Dyan’s reunion with his family after years apart recently went viral. The backstory was filled with unimaginable hardship. Dyan, his wife Alik, and their two children fled their village in South Sudan due to war, aiming for refugee camps in Africa before relocating to America. Unfortunately, they were separated during this tumultuous journey.
Refugee Separated from Family
Alik, along with their two children, was categorized as a single mother, while Dyan was listed as a single man and consequently placed at the bottom of a resettlement list. This misclassification was particularly problematic since single men are rarely prioritized for relocation to the United States. Dyan ended up in a refugee camp in Egypt, and amidst the chaos, their marriage documents were lost, leaving them unable to prove their matrimony. Alik arrived at Dallas/Ft. Worth Airport, pregnant with their third child, uncertain of ever reuniting with Dyan.
Seeking Help
Thanks to the unwavering support of an agency called Catholic Charities, Dyan finally reunited with his family after four long years and met his third child for the first time. Established in Alexandria, Virginia in 1910, Catholic Charities initially aimed to unify various charitable endeavors. It has since expanded, offering numerous services to people facing poverty or peril across the nation. Two volunteers, Molly and Mary Claire, bonded with Alik and worked tirelessly to reunite her with Dyan.
Throughout the four-year ordeal, Molly and Mary Claire supported Alik through single motherhood, even attending the birth of her third child. Their extensive efforts included reaching out to politicians, immigration attorneys, and social workers. Finally, after meticulous paperwork and relentless advocacy, they located Dyan, enabling the family’s emotional reunion.
Difficulties of Being a Refugee
Being a refugee involves immense bravery, optimism, and hope. Leaving behind everything familiar and facing an uncertain future in a new country with different languages and customs poses significant challenges.
Separation from family is just one hurdle among many. Refugees often struggle with language barriers, which can make helping their children with schoolwork difficult, potentially setting the children back academically.
Getting a job or finding suitable housing is another struggle, often compounded by exploitation, discrimination, or high costs. Access to essential resources like healthcare and legal advice can be limited, and transportation barriers further complicate their efforts to settle in.
Holding onto Hope
Despite these challenges, refugees can integrate into society and their communities. Using apps like EventBrite can help them connect with others who share similar interests and cultural backgrounds, easing their social integration process.
Volunteering is another effective way for refugees to engage with their local communities, fostering connections and a sense of shared experience and support.
Keeping occupied with activities like knitting or making jewelry for sale can not only generate extra income but also provide a positive distraction from the anxieties of awaiting citizenship approval.
Lastly, maintaining a positive outlook is crucial. This doesn’t mean ignoring the hardships but rather choosing to focus on hope and resilience. By nurturing positive thoughts and actions, refugees can uplift themselves and others, becoming beacons of hope and strength.
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- “7 of the biggest challenges immigrants and refugees face in the US.” Global Citizen. Christina Nuñez. December 12, 2014.