21. Big Sur, California

Big Sur is raw, wild beauty, and incredibly romantic if you love nature and privacy. The rugged cliffs, crashing waves, and winding highway views make every moment feel cinematic. Rent a cozy cabin in the woods or a cliffside retreat with ocean views. Hike in Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park or watch the sunset at Bixby Creek Bridge. There’s something about being surrounded by that much natural beauty that brings people closer. Even simple things, like a picnic by the water or a fireside glass of wine feel elevated. No flashy crowds, no rush. Just you, your partner, and some of the most breathtaking views on the West Coast. Big Sur is for couples who want to unplug and really connect.