3. They Seek Out Affection

If your dog comes to you for belly rubs, head scratches, or just to sit beside you, that’s a sign they’re happy and secure. Dogs are naturally social and crave connection with people they trust. Dr. Bekoff explains that a dog who actively seeks gentle affection is showing signs of emotional well-being. They aren’t just being polite. They are inviting closeness because it feels good to them. The Science article on oxytocin also highlights that physical touch builds a strong emotional bond. If your dog pushes their nose under your hand or curls up next to you, they’re not just being cute. They’re saying they feel safe, calm, and deeply connected to you.