Sometimes life just isn’t fair. This story from People is a prime example of that. This 30-year-old, soon-to-be-dad died of an extremely rare cancer only three weeks after his first ER visit. Get your tissues ready, this story is quite emotional.
Soon-To-Be-Dad Dies of Rare Cancer
Matthew and Gracie Robertson met in 2018 on the dating app Bumble. Gracie wasn’t interested much in using the app, but her friend wanted her to try and even did the swiping for her. It was her friend who swiped right on Matthew. Only a week prior, Matthew had moved from Nebraska to Long Island, New York because of a new job opportunity. They ended up in each other’s radius because Gracie was visiting her friend who lived on Long Island. It was all by fate.
“It happened super fast and super naturally,” she told People. “We decided to meet up and get coffee a few days after talking and then after that first coffee date, we had our second date and then our third date. It was kind of like, ‘This is it.'” (1)
The couple got engaged in November 2020 and married in September 2021. Shortly after getting married, they found out that they were going to be parents. They were overjoyed.
A Short-Lived Joy
As their baby’s due date got closer and closer, Matthew started saying that he wasn’t feeling quite right. His back was hurting all the time and he was constantly tired. They were all symptoms, however, that they explained away easily. He was spending a lot of time building baby furniture, and they also were still going on a fair number of trips. All of these were viable reasons for why he was experiencing what he was.
He went to the doctor for a check-up where they did some blood work. The results showed a somewhat elevated white blood cell count as well as liver enzymes. The doctor didn’t seem overly concerned, but suggested getting another sample. The redraw showed even higher counts, however, the doctor still didn’t seem overly concerned. He told them that if Matthew started feeling sick or had a fever, to go to the emergency room.
After a few days of night sweats and continued fatigue, Matthew decided to go to the emergency room. At the hospital, the doctors did a CAT scan and an abdominal ultrasound. From what they saw, they said that they thought it might be cancer. He had several tests done to figure out what kind of cancer it might be. Matthew was feeling terrible, so Gracie suggested they find out the sex of the baby to cheer him up. That’s when they found out they were having a little girl.
A Girl Dad
Gracie says that Matthew was super excited to be a dad. When people asked him if he was hoping it was a girl or a boy, Gracie says that Matthew always said “60% I want a girl, 40% I want a boy”. She knew, however, that he really wanted to be a girl dad. When they discovered they were to have a girl, Matthew was over the moon. Unfortunately, that joy was quickly overshadowed as his condition continued to deteriorate.
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When Matthew was unable to eat or drink, Gracie decided to rush him back to the ER. It was a tense first night. The doctors weren’t even sure if he would make it through that first night in the hospital.